I've been thinking a lot about a future husband. I don't know if I met him yet, nor am I in any rush to meet him and run off right away to get married. I think God has a lot planned for me, and I don't know if that includes a husband or not, honestly.
But here are some things I would want in a significant other, whether he be husband or boyfriend.
1. Christian. (Includes no smoking, drugs, no sex before marriage, and inspiring devotion to his heavenly Father even through tough times)
2. Lets me be who I am, even when I have those quirky days.
3. He is kinda quirky himself.
4. Appreciates a nice cup of something warm while sitting under a big fuzzy blanket in the dead of winter.
5. Can sit in silence with me.
6. Doesn't walk fast.
7. Will take me on real dates.
8. Will give me room and freedom, but care about me and want to be involved with what I'm doing.
9. Honesty. If something I say is dumb, tell me.
10. I want him to be able to talk to me. Anytime. Middle of the night. Middle of the day. I want the cute voicemails that I save on my phone when to listen to when I'm crabby.
11. Patient.
12. A gentleman. Open doors for me!! :)
In return, I will be...
1. Caring. Understanding. I will try my hardest to see your viewpoint.
2. Random. It's one of my best features, and I will try to use it to make you laugh.
3. Your companion. I will go on road trips with you, sit on airplanes with you, stay at home with you, anything and everything.
4. Supportive. Whatever you do, if you're following in God's plan for you, I will support. I don't care if it's music or computers and technology- I will support you.
More to come....
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